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    <title type="text">Law Offices of Nicole Alvarez P.A.</title>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Prenup vs postnup: Which is best if you share a business with your spouse?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47188</id>
            <updated>2026-09-03T14:21:36Z</updated>
            <published>2026-09-03T14:21:36Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[When your business partner is also your spouse, the line between personal and professional never fully disappears. What happens in your marriage can affect the company and what happens with the company can affect your marriage.  This is why planning ahead with the right legal agreement can help protect both. But before you decide which path fits your situation, it…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/09/prenup-vs-postnup-which-is-best-if-you-share-a-business-with-your-spouse/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">When your business partner is also your spouse, the line between personal and professional never fully disappears. What happens in your marriage can affect the company and what happens with the company can affect your marriage. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">This is why planning ahead with the right legal agreement can help protect both. But before you decide which path fits your situation, it helps to understand what each option covers and how it works in Florida.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What is a prenuptial agreement?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A prenuptial agreement is a formal legal document that you and your future spouse </span><a href="https://www.leg.state.fl.us/statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&amp;URL=0000-0099/0061/Sections/0061.079.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">create and sign before your wedding</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> day. Florida also recognizes it as a premarital agreement. It can cover who owns which assets, how you divide property if the marriage ends and how you handle business interests. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">This gives both of you a clear legal foundation, which is especially valuable if you already own a business. However, a prenup is not your only option and for some couples, signing an agreement after the wedding makes more practical sense.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What is a post-nuptial agreement?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">On the other hand, a post-nuptial agreement works similarly, but you </span><a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/marriage/what-is-a-postnuptial-agreement.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">sign it after you are already married</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Florida courts review these agreements carefully to make sure they are fair and legally sound. Both spouses must enter the agreement voluntarily and fully disclose their finances.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">If you and your spouse share a business, a postnup can help you define ownership, roles and responsibilities going forward. Thus, understanding both options helps you figure out which one fits your current circumstances.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Which is best for shared business owners?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Choosing the right agreement usually depends on when your business started. If you owned the business before the wedding, a prenuptial agreement is a strong option because it protects your pre-existing equity and company structure from future claims. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">If your business started during the marriage or grew significantly using marital funds or joint effort, a postnuptial agreement may fit better. It lets you define ownership clearly, address business debt and reorganize assets based on where things stand with your spouse. Either way, knowing your options is the first step toward making a confident decision.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Protecting your business interest during marriage</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Entering into a prenuptial or a postnuptial agreement is not always a straightforward process, but knowing your options puts you in a stronger position. In fact, Florida offers several </span><a href="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/family-law/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">legal paths to protect your business interests</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, whether you are planning a wedding or already building a life together. The right agreement depends on your circumstances, your business structure and where you are in your marriage. With the right guidance, you can move forward with confidence and protect what you have worked hard to build.</span>]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Nicole Alvarez P.A.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What Coral Gables parents should know about time-sharing]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47185</id>
            <updated>2026-08-24T14:46:55Z</updated>
            <published>2026-08-24T14:46:55Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[When parents in Florida divorce or separate, they need to come up with a parenting plan that can outline the responsibilities of both parents. Time-sharing is one of the most important aspects of a parenting plan because it outlines how much time each parent spends with the child. Florida law gives timelines for how parents should divide this time, which…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/08/what-coral-gables-parents-should-know-about-time-sharing/"><![CDATA[When parents in Florida divorce or separate, they need to come up with a parenting plan that can outline the responsibilities of both parents. Time-sharing is one of the most important aspects of a parenting plan because it outlines how much time each parent spends with the child. Florida law gives timelines for how parents should divide this time, which can affect how they create a parenting schedule.

Since July 2023, Florida courts have begun with a presumption that an equal, 50-50 time-sharing split is in the child's best interests, it helps Coral Gables parents to understand how that presumption works before they sit down to negotiate a schedule.
<h2>Factors to consider when creating a time-sharing plan</h2>
Florida courts consider the <a href="https://www.flsenate.gov/Laws/Statutes/2025/61.13" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">child’s best interests</a> when establishing or approving a parenting plan. When developing a time-sharing schedule, parents should consider:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>The child’s school and activities:</strong> Take into account the school’s timings, extracurricular activities and other commitments, deciding when the child will stay with each parent. This can help the schedule fit the child’s existing routine.</li>
 	<li><strong>Each parent’s availability:</strong> Work schedules, childcare responsibilities and other commitments may affect when a parent can provide care. A realistic schedule should account for these factors and be practical for both parents.</li>
 	<li><strong>Holidays and school breaks:</strong> Parents can agree on how to celebrate birthdays, and holidays. Discussing these matters in parenting plans <a href="/family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">will help set expectations</a> for both sides.</li>
 	<li><strong>Communication and major decisions:</strong> Separate from the time-sharing schedule itself, parents should also agree on how they will talk to each other, and divide responsibilities for major decisions, such as schooling and health needs.</li>
</ul>
A parent who wants a different schedule from the equal time-sharing must show that it would not be in the child's best interest, based on the factors listed above.
<h2>Getting help with a time-sharing plan</h2>
A proper parenting plan can ensure both parents are on the same page regarding schedules and responsibilities as well as provide the child with a greater sense of stability. If you are having difficulty reaching an agreement or have questions about a proposed time-sharing plan, a family law attorney can help you understand your options and what the laws in Florida mean for your situation.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Nicole Alvarez P.A.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Coral Gables high-stakes divorce: How is property divided?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47183</id>
            <updated>2026-08-14T14:25:05Z</updated>
            <published>2026-08-14T14:25:05Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[A high-asset divorce in Florida does not automatically result in a 50-50 split. Courts use equitable distribution, which means the judge must review the property, debt and financial history to decide what result is fair. The court first separates marital and separate property Florida courts first decide what belongs in the marital estate and what stays separate. That issue can…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/08/coral-gables-high-stakes-divorce-how-is-property-divided/"><![CDATA[A high-asset divorce in Florida does not automatically result in a 50-50 split. Courts use equitable distribution, which means the judge must review the property, debt and financial history to decide what result is fair.
<h2>The court first separates marital and separate property</h2>
Florida courts first decide what belongs in the marital estate and what stays separate. That issue can become harder when a spouse mixes personal and marital funds, used business income during the marriage or increased the value of separate property through joint effort. Florida follows <a href="https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/equitable_distribution" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">equitable distribution</a>, which focuses on fairness rather than an automatic equal division.
<h2>What assets create the biggest disputes?</h2>
High-asset divorces often involve property that is harder to trace or value than an ordinary bank account. Business interests and professional practices may require appraisals and financial analysis. Stock awards, deferred compensation and retirement accounts can raise questions about timing, vesting and what part belongs in the marital estate. Real estate tied to investments or business use may create its own ownership and valuation issues.

A dispute may grow when one spouse claims that part of the property should stay separate or argues that the other spouse used the wrong value.
<h2>Valuation and records can affect the result</h2>
A conflict over marital property may depend on business records, account statements, tax returns and evidence showing whether an asset grew because of marital effort. Many <a href="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/family-law/divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">high-asset divorce disputes</a> require early financial review so both sides understand what is actually in dispute. When the spouses do not agree on value, tracing or ownership, settlement may stall and small mistakes can become expensive. A divorce lawyer can help determine those issues early, before incomplete financial records or disputed values drive the case in the wrong direction.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Nicole Alvarez P.A.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Overcoming the 50-50 equal time-sharing presumption in Florida]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/07/overcoming-the-50-50-equal-time-sharing-presumption-in-florida/" />
            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47179</id>
            <updated>2026-07-24T12:16:11Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-24T11:20:19Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Florida courts start with a presumption that equal time-sharing is in a child’s best interests, but that presumption can be overcome with evidence. A parent who wants a different schedule usually must show why a 50-50 arrangement would not serve the child’s needs in that specific case. The best interests of the child still control time-sharing Equal time is not…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/07/overcoming-the-50-50-equal-time-sharing-presumption-in-florida/"><![CDATA[Florida courts start with a presumption that equal time-sharing is in a child's best interests, but that presumption can be overcome with evidence. A parent who wants a different schedule usually must show why a 50-50 arrangement would not serve the child's needs in that specific case.
<h2>The best interests of the child still control time-sharing</h2>
Equal time is not automatic in every custody case. The court must still evaluate the child's best interests, which means a parent can argue for a different schedule when a 50/50 arrangement would create harm, instability or serious disruption.

Relevant facts may include the child's school and medical needs, the distance between homes, each parent's ability to handle daily responsibilities and each parent's willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent. In Miami-Dade cases, local <a href="https://www.jud11.flcourts.org/family-court-services" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">mediation and evaluation resources</a> may also become part of the process through mediation, evaluations or other court-related resources.
<h2>What evidence can rebut the presumption?</h2>
A parent usually needs more than a general belief that equal time will not work. Judges look for concrete facts showing why another arrangement better fits the child's life. Useful evidence may include:
<ul>
 	<li>School records showing attendance or performance concerns</li>
 	<li>Medical or therapy records tied to the child's needs</li>
 	<li>Work schedules that limit a parent's availability</li>
 	<li>Evidence that ongoing conflict disrupts co-parenting or the child's routine</li>
 	<li>Testimony about the child's routine, stability and care needs</li>
</ul>
These details can help show why a different parenting schedule would better support the child's health, education and day-to-day stability.
<h2>A workable schedule can strengthen the case</h2>
A judge usually needs more than evidence that equal time would not work well in practice. The parent should also be ready to show what schedule would work better and why. A well-supported proposal often carries more weight than a general objection to equal time, especially when parenting-time issues also affect daily expenses and other <a href="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/family-law/child-and-spousal-support/" data-wpel-link="internal">family support questions</a>. A lawyer can help organize the records, testimony and scheduling details that support that proposal.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What to expect during child custody mediation in Florida?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47177</id>
            <updated>2026-07-21T11:31:12Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-21T11:31:12Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[When parents separate, creating a plan for their children quickly becomes one of the most important and emotional parts of the process. Florida courts typically require parents to attempt mediation before allowing a judge to make the final call on timesharing and parental responsibility. When co-parents understand the process and prepare carefully, mediation can establish a more stable path forward…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/07/what-to-expect-during-child-custody-mediation-in-florida/"><![CDATA[When parents separate, creating a plan for their children quickly becomes one of the most important and emotional parts of the process. Florida courts typically require parents to attempt mediation before allowing a judge to make the final call on timesharing and parental responsibility. When co-parents understand the process and prepare carefully, mediation can establish a more stable path forward for the entire family.
<h2>What is Florida’s framework for custody?</h2>
Florida law generally favors shared parental responsibility, meaning both parents are encouraged to remain involved in major decisions affecting the child unless that arrangement would be detrimental to the child. The law assumes that splitting time equally is best for the child, unless there is proof that a different schedule is more beneficial.
<h2>What should parents expect during mediation?</h2>
Mediation gives parents a private and less formal space to build a <a href="https://www.firstjudicialcircuit.org/public/mediation-and-parenting-coordination/#:~:text=considered%20or%20divided%3F-,Shared%20Parenting%20Plan,-%E2%80%93%20If%20children%20were" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">parenting plan before tria</a>l. During the session, both parties attend the session, often with their attorneys. Minor children generally do not attend mediation unless the court specifically authorizes their participation. If the court named a guardian ad litem to speak for the child, that person may also attend.

In many cases, a neutral mediator appointed by the court guides the discussion but never decides the outcome. Sessions generally take a few hours and may need a follow-up meeting. Any deal becomes part of the final parenting plan once a judge approves it.
<h2>How does mediation benefit Florida families?</h2>
Mediation often costs less than a trial and moves faster than a standard court calendar. Parents can shape the outcome rather than handing every decision to a judge. Moreover, children may benefit when their parents cooperate instead of fighting in court.
<h2>How to prepare confidently for mediation?</h2>
To strengthen position and ease the process before the session, it is best to do the following:
<ul>
 	<li>Gather school, medical and work schedules ahead of time.</li>
 	<li>Note priorities and compromises before the meeting.</li>
 	<li>Keep the child’s needs at the center of every choice.</li>
 	<li><a href="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">Learn parental rights and responsibilities</a> under Florida law.</li>
</ul>
This groundwork can help parents offer realistic terms and reach agreements that truly last. Building a strong plan with legal guidance can help parents protect their rights while keeping their child’s well-being at the forefront.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Nicole Alvarez P.A.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Will my divorce attorney need to talk to my child?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47173</id>
            <updated>2026-07-01T20:31:23Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-01T20:31:23Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[One of the most common concerns parents have during a divorce is whether their child will have to become involved in the legal process. Many parents worry that their attorney will need to interview their son or daughter or ask them to choose between their parents. Fortunately, in most divorces, that does not happen. A skilled divorce attorney’s primary role…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/07/will-my-divorce-attorney-need-to-talk-to-my-child/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">One of the most common concerns parents have during a divorce is whether their child will have to become involved in the legal process. Many parents worry that their attorney will need to interview their son or daughter or ask them to choose between their parents. Fortunately, in most divorces, that does not happen.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">A </span><a href="/family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">skilled divorce attorney's primary role</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> is to represent the interests of their adult client. Attorneys typically gather information from parents, financial records, school records, medical records and other sources rather than relying directly on conversations with children. In many cases, there is no need for an attorney to speak with a child at all.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">This approach helps protect children from becoming caught in the middle of their parents' dispute. Divorce is already a significant life change, and minimizing a child's involvement in legal proceedings can reduce unnecessary stress and emotional pressure.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">There are, however, situations in which information about a child becomes especially important. If custody or parenting time is contested, the court may need additional information about the child's needs, daily routine, education, health or relationship with each parent. Even then, the attorney often obtains this information through the parents, teachers, counselors or other adults who know the child well.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">In some high-conflict custody cases, the court may appoint a </span><a href="https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/blog/what-guardian-ad-litem" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">guardian ad litem</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">, custody evaluator or another neutral professional to meet with the child and provide recommendations. These individuals are different from the parents' attorneys and serve a separate role in helping the court understand what arrangement is in the child's best interests.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">The bottom line</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">If an attorney does determine that speaking with a child is appropriate, this situation should be handled carefully and only when necessary. The goal is not to ask the child to decide the outcome of the case but to better understand circumstances that may affect the child's well-being.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">For most families, legal work is handled by the adults and their attorneys, allowing young family members to stay out of the courtroom and focus on adjusting to their new family dynamics.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Time apart can increase divorce odds]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/06/time-apart-can-increase-divorce-odds/" />
            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47168</id>
            <updated>2026-06-21T09:46:19Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-21T09:45:13Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[One of the simplest things that can lead to an increase in divorce odds is when couples do not spend enough time together. This is not to say that time alone is always a bad thing, but too much time apart can cause a relationship to begin to deteriorate. One way that we see this is when it comes to…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/06/time-apart-can-increase-divorce-odds/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">One of the simplest things that can lead to an increase in divorce odds is when couples do not spend enough time together. This is not to say that time alone is always a bad thing, but too much time apart can cause a relationship to begin to deteriorate.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">One way that we see this is when it comes to </span><a href="https://oneop.org/2025/01/08/divorce-in-the-ranks-supporting-military-spouses-navigating-divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">military divorces</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">. The divorce rate for someone who is in the military is slightly higher, statistically speaking, than it is for a civilian.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Part of the reason for this is that being in the military is very demanding. Couples spend time apart during training or after the military member is transferred to a new location. They could also spend months apart if the military member is deployed. This can take a toll on the relationship over time.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">A long commute</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">But even civilians can experience this strain. For example, </span><a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/markeghrari/2016/01/21/a-long-commute-could-be-the-last-thing-your-marriage-needs/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400">one study</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> linked long commutes, defined as those over 45 minutes, with an increase in divorce odds of 40%.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Naturally, many people feel that they have to endure a long commute because employment itself gives them more financial stability and can help their marriage and standard of living. And while that may be true, an excessively long commute can still strain the marriage because the couple has far less time to spend together. The combination of working hours and time spent driving to and from the office cuts into their personal time significantly.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Do you believe that you and your partner may get divorced in the coming year? If so, it is important that you know exactly what </span><a href="/family-law/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">legal steps to take</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> when addressing property division, child custody rights and more.</span>

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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[3 tips for keeping discussions focused on your children]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47166</id>
            <updated>2026-06-11T10:36:09Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-11T10:36:09Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Parents who are splitting up can’t avoid communicating with each other forever. Instead, they have to find ways that they can have productive discussions with each other. This is the only way they can talk about schedules, school events, medical appointments, holidays, activities, transportation and daily routines.  One of the most important ways that parents can keep discussions productive is…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/06/3-tips-for-keeping-discussions-focused-on-your-children/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Parents who are splitting up can’t avoid communicating with each other forever. Instead, they have to find ways that they can have productive discussions with each other. This is the only way they can talk about schedules, school events, medical appointments, holidays, activities, transportation and daily routines. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">One of the most important ways that parents can keep discussions productive is to </span><a href="https://www.helpguide.org/family/parenting/co-parenting-tips-for-divorced-parents" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">keep the focus on the children</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">. It’s not always easy to do this, but these tips may help. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">1: Use child-centered language</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">When you speak to your ex, frame the discussions around what your child needs. Don’t fall into the temptation to criticize your ex, even if you think it’s warranted. Instead, think about how to turn the discussion to how everything affects the children. For example, if a child isn’t getting enough sleep, bring up that they’re tired in school. But don’t blame the other parent for allowing the child to stay up too late. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">2: Stick to one issue per conversation</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">Trying to solve multiple issues all at once can be overwhelming for both parents. Instead of trying to do this, stick to one issue per conversation. When one issue is resolved, move to the next one. This helps to ensure that practical decisions are made and that both parents will remember the resolutions. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">3: Pause when emotions take over</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">There’s a good chance that conversations will get tense when you’re dealing with your ex. If things get heated, it’s best to take a break. Plan a time to come back together and take the time apart to calm down and consider the viable resolutions for the issue. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">The </span><a href="/family-law" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">parenting plan</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> is the cornerstone of raising your child with your ex. Ensuring that you have this set as early in the case as possible can benefit both parents and the child. It might be best to work with someone familiar with these situations so they can assist with determining what’s best for the children. </span>

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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Does your child have a say in the custody decision?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47164</id>
            <updated>2026-05-27T15:55:41Z</updated>
            <published>2026-05-27T15:55:41Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Yes, your child may be able to have a say in the custody decision during a divorce case. But it is important to point out that they cannot make this decision on their own. The court is not going to ask them to choose which parent to live with, for example, and allow them to set their own terms. That…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/05/does-your-child-have-a-say-in-the-custody-decision/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Yes, your child may be able to have a say in the custody decision during a divorce case. But it is important to point out that they cannot make this decision on their own. The court is not going to ask them to choose which parent to live with, for example, and allow them to set their own terms.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">That said, children may be asked to express their preference during the case. This is often done with </span><a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/child-custody/focusing-on-the-best-interests-of-the-child.html#:~:text=In%20the%20context%20of%20child,emotional%20development%20into%20young%20adulthood." target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">older children</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">, such as teenagers. The court can decide if the child is old enough to fully understand what they are requesting and the ramifications of that request.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Does the court have to honor it?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">No, the court is not obligated to honor the child’s request. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">For instance, say that both parents have requested shared custody of their child. The child, however, says that they want to live with one parent and not the other.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">The court can take their preference into account, but it is also going to look at a variety of factors, such as the parents’ ages, their mental and physical health, their income levels, the availability of a stable housing situation and much more.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Overall, the court is going to try to find a custody solution that is in the child’s best interests. This may or may not align with the child’s own preferences, depending on all of these factors and more.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Navigating a custody dispute</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">As you can see, while children can be involved in a custody decision, it is ultimately up to the court to decide how to rule. While working through a divorce and a custody dispute, take the time to carefully look into all of </span><a href="/family-law/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">your legal options</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">.</span>

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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Nicole Alvarez P.A.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How fast do you have to respond to a divorce in Florida?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/?p=47161</id>
            <updated>2026-05-14T09:31:18Z</updated>
            <published>2026-05-14T09:30:14Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Once you have been served with legal paperwork in Florida, the law typically gives you 20 days to respond. This is a relatively short timeframe, so it is important to act quickly. In a divorce case, there may be steps you want to take before you respond. Perhaps you need to talk to your attorney. Maybe you want to inventory…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.nicolealvarezpa.com/blog/2026/05/how-fast-do-you-have-to-respond-to-a-divorce-in-florida/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Once you have been served with legal paperwork in Florida, the law typically gives you 20 days to respond. This is a relatively short timeframe, so it is important to act quickly.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">In a divorce case, there may be steps you want to take before you respond. Perhaps you need to talk to your attorney. Maybe you want to inventory your assets, learn more about your child custody options, gather financial documentation and take other critical steps. You can do so, but you must respond within 20 days, so you need to work quickly through this process.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Are there any exceptions?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">There are rare cases in which a person may have more than 20 days to respond. A primary example is if that person is a member of the armed forces.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Under the </span><a href="https://www.militaryonesource.mil/financial-legal/legal/servicemembers-civil-relief-act/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">Servicemembers Civil Relief Act</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">, a person who is occupied by military duty can request a stay of 90 days when facing any civil lawsuits. This includes a divorce case.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">After all, it may not be practical for that person to receive the divorce petition or respond to it in a timely manner. It would not be fair to them if their spouse could file for a divorce while they were deployed, for example, causing them to miss the deadline and be cut out of the legal process. The 90-day stay allows them to return to the U.S. and participate in the division of marital property, child custody rights and more.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">But these exceptions are rare, so most people need to remember that they </span><a href="https://www.flcourts.gov/Courts-System/florida-courts-help/get-started/the-process-what-happens-in-court" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">only have 20 days</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> to respond.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Moving forward with your divorce</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">Once you have responded to the divorce petition, the court will set up hearings, ask for financial disclosures and take other steps. It is critical to understand </span><a href="/family-law/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">your legal rights</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> as you move forward with this process.</span>]]></content>
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